Kinesics, Paralanguage, Proxemics

Unpredictability = focus, memory, humor, smile. POWERFUL.

Touch from another person = unpredictable, attention. (related to basic tickling instinct). Has grown to vocal/mental unp

redictability, humor, comics, jokes, etc.

Humor = unpredictability.

Smile:

Laughter linked to pleasure center / oxytocin / social bonding area of brain.

Smile = about human sociality, not humor. Key to love, sociality.

Smile in the wrinkle on outer edges of eyes.

tight-lipped = formal, reserved

bare front teeth = confidence

crooked/smirk = skepticism/arrogant

wide-lipped = genuine happiness

ha-ha throaty = kind heart, passion, loyal

ho-ho = shy, intelligent, practical

he-he soft = selfish, flirty, possessive

silent/breathy = emotional, unstable, loyal, secretive

Eyes:

constant shifting = shrewd/egotistic

avoid eye contact = lack of conviction, teeming complexities

staring = judgemental

open/direct = sincere, trustworthy

squint = suspicious

ceilng/around = bored

roll up = can't stand you

Conversation:

flick hair sideways = concious sign of chemistry

rubbing fingertips = orderly, sincere

lip biting = indecisive

index finger to cheek = self opinioned, rigid

nail bite = hyper sensitive, under pressure

Sitting:

right over left cross = artistic / experimental

left over right cross = pragmatic, straight-forward

leaning, elbow on table = impatient, focus on speaker not subject

backrest = approachable

slack shoulders = calm / apathy

arm rest = forthright, passioante

wrap legs around chair legs = inflexible, unsociable

Sleeping:

face-up = sociable, self-righteous

stomach = stubborn, dominating

sideways = mentally stable popularity

curled up = emotionally vulnerable

clenched fist = miserly

open fists = spendthrift

Flirt Men: gaze, initiate contact, hand on thigh

Flirt Woman: Batting eyelashes, flick hair, shrug shoulders, snicker, "coy", hand on thigh

Pupilometrics:

wide pupil = like

small pupil = dislike

look right answering question = fast / logical

look left answering question = emotional

General Body Good:

self-touch

relaxed

body movement mimic

General Body Bad:

tighten up

Voice:

• in conversation, low frequency dominant which doesn't change first is perceived as having higher social status
• softer/higher = friendly / non-aggressive / non-hostile

Smile = about human sociality, not humor. Key to love, sociality.

Laughter linked to pleasure center / oxytocin / social bonding area of brain.

Unpredictability = focus, memory, humor, smile. POWERFUL.

Touch from another person = unpredictable, attention. (related to basic tickling instinct). Has grown to vocal/mental unpredictability, humor, comics, jokes, etc.

Humor = unpredictability.

Smile in the wrinkle on outer edges of eyes.